It is possible to determine a partner's willingness for intimacy not just by the condition of his penis. The erection is not always noticeable, but it is often important for a woman to be aware of what she likes. It is easy to understand that a man is easily aroused and by other signs often not so direct.
Nonverbal signals
Like it or not, a man by the outward manifestations of behavior and reactions of the body shows his interest in an object of the opposite sex. Nonverbal messages from a partner will help to understand his condition and readiness for sexual intercourse. Often the repetition of actions speaks to his desire. This "reflection" is a clear symptom of passion and desire for a closer relationship.
When communicating, a man caught by passion will try to approach, reduce the distance to the object of desire, and this action is performed automatically unconsciously. Further, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, make bodily contact, but this does not mean that the excited partner will conduct an offensive without respecting the rules of etiquette.
The contact will be quite casual, easy, without fixation, but the excitement that a man experiences during such contact is clearly felt. A woman realizes that this behavior is not accidental, seeing the persistence and a certain nervousness of human behavior.
It is also important to record external manifestations in a man’s behavior. In the moment of excitement, he tries to direct his shoulders, pull on the stomach, present his figure in a favorable light. Often, due to arousal, the partner begins to lick his lips, grasp his chin, nose or ears with his fingers, which is also typical for women.
The signs of a man waking up, manifested non-verbally, can be reduced to a small list of features of his behavior:
- an excited man tries to please a woman - move a chair, open a door, help carry something, or serve;
- he seeks to reduce the distance in communication;
- during a conversation, a man tries to make light bodily contact;
- a man, burning with passion for a woman, does his best to be alone with her more often.
A man's poses
The need to show sexual attraction in implicit ways arose in an era of strict rules and regulations, when attitudes toward the intimate process were taboo by church moral codes and standards. Both husband and wife needed to demonstrate to their partner a willingness to take action without fear of publicity and public censorship. It is in such cases that nonverbal cues make learning about likes and dislikes possible.
To love a woman and not show her is wrong, from the point of view of a normal man. Therefore, a potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to demonstrate his interest to the object of desire through sexual gestures and behaviors.
The man shows most of the gestures and positions at the reflex level without understanding their sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them clearly show interest, others are more hidden and read only by a girl who is ready for contact.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he inadvertently begins to give an "alpha male". He shows willingness to have sex with safe postures and showing a high tone of his body physical condition. This is usually seen in the following manifestations:
- the man directs his back and directs his shoulders;
- tries to pull in the stomach deeper;
- if a man is standing, his legs are open at shoulder width, indicating a special endurance and a strong position;
- it is also important to trace the position of the man's shoe socks, if he is interested in any attractive person then they will be addressed to this woman;
- if a man is sitting in a chair, he will inadvertently open his legs, thus, as if demonstrating his genitals, ready for mating.
The involuntary gestures and gestures of a man who wants to take possession of a woman he likes often resemble the behavior of male apes during mating and mating games, which shows the common roots of primates and humans.
The excited man starts straightening his clothes and hair in the hope of attracting the woman’s attention with his appearance. Instead of an angular and heavy walk, he moves fast, like an athlete, while correcting the flaws of the figure, straightening and removing the stomach. A glow appears in the eyes, the skin on the face tightens automatically and the bags under the eyes disappear by themselves. In general, passion makes a person much younger and really more desirable to a friend.
Now such a gesture is seldom used, and many have already forgotten it, but even fifty years ago, thumbs placed behind a belt of pants meant a rude, visible action towards a woman, intended to demonstrate their genitals.
The delay in looking at the man in the object of his lust says a lot. When he looks a woman in the eye a little more than the rules of etiquette dictate, it shows his enthusiasm and willingness for a closer contact.
The location of the hands on the groin shows a woman a man's physical superiority over other rivals, his power and strength, and therefore his willingness to give birth.
Interestingly it is interesting that women are more sensitive to the manifestations of male attention and quickly notice all the tricks of a potential partner, while a guy may not understand the sympathy shown by the girl for a long time.
Physical manifestations
The state of arousal in a man is manifested not only by the erection of the penis, but also by other, often not so obvious, physiological signs.
A man, subject to passion, often directs the details of his clothes, loosens the knot of the tie, which begins to literally suffocate him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the timbre of the voice may change to a lower one, vision is blurred, pulse speeds up, blood pressure jumps. Behavioral characteristics during this period are very difficult to hide from outside attention, and even more so from the object of desire - a woman catches such signs immediately and consciously takes note.
A man can be awakened not only by the direct manifestations of a woman's sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts about intimacy. The wave of passion catches the partner and his behavior varies depending on temperament and hormonal levels. The general signs of erotic tension are the physiological indicators listed above, which, in terms of symptoms, resemble a stressful state. In addition to rapid breathing and heartbeat, changes in voice and pressure occur, muscle tone increases, pupils dilate, and increased salivation is observed.
During an erection, a clear fluid is released from the penis, which does not contain sperm, but is a type of lubricant that allows you to penetrate a woman's vagina without much effort. It rises along the walls of the urethra and remains at the head of the penis in the form of a dot.
Fat comes from the Cooper glands and contains various enzymes. This pure liquid has several functions:
- it removes the remnants of urine in the urethra;
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the woman's vagina;
- the thick consistency of the lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra for the release of sperm;
- the lubricant allows you to perform rubbing during intercourse without damaging the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body and can range from a small drop to 5 ml. The main purpose of the secretion of this fluid is to provide a favorable environment for conceiving a child. Neutralization of the acidic atmosphere of the vagina is necessary to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of a man's sexual arousal is the erection of the penis. Due to the increased blood supply to the penis, the cavernous bodies are filled with plasma, and the size of the organ increases markedly in length and width.
The difference in the size of the penis in the erect state from the usual one depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body, but it has been observed that a small penis enlarges more than a more impressive organ.
The erect penis becomes strong and elastic, due to which its penetration into the woman's vagina is ensured, the man at this time is already fully ready for coitus and the passion ignites even more.
During penetration into a woman's breast, the man's body becomes even more involved in the process of sexual intercourse. Heart rate increases, muscle tension reaches its limit, pressure rises even higher
and it becomes almost impossible to curb passion.
The climax of sexual intercourse for a man is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. Pleasure lasts 5-10 seconds and occurs due to contraction of the smooth muscle of the prostate gland as it pushes through the seminal fluid of the urethra filled with millions of sperm.
A man during orgasm may make sudden sounds and groans. Sperm volume depends on the person's conditions and the duration of abstinence.